You Were Never Meant to Stay Stuck.
Transformational Coaching With Shannon Stallings
There comes a point when you realize that knowing you want something different isn’t enough.
You can read the books. Listen to the podcasts. Say the affirmations. Set the goals. Pray for clarity. Tell yourself that this time things will be different.
And yet somehow, you find yourself repeating the same patterns.
That’s where my work begins.
I’m Shannon Stallings, a Certified Transformational Coach specializing in Integrative Neuro-Linguistic Programming (iNLP) and Mental & Emotional Release® (MER®). I help women uncover and release the unconscious beliefs, emotions, and patterns that have been quietly shaping their lives—sometimes for decades.
Because I don’t believe you need another person telling you what you should do.
I believe you need to understand what has been stopping you from doing what you already know you’re capable of.
We Go to the Root
My coaching is different because we don’t simply manage the symptoms of what is happening in your life.
We look for the root.
Why do you keep choosing the same type of relationship?
Why do you sabotage yourself when success gets close?
Why do you struggle to receive?
Why can you confidently tell another woman she is worthy, yet have difficulty believing the same thing about yourself?
Why do you know exactly what you should do—but still can’t seem to make yourself do it?
Often, what appears to be a confidence problem, relationship problem, money problem, procrastination problem, or business problem is connected to something much deeper.
Through NLP, MER®, subconscious work, guided visualization, meditation, breathwork, prayer, and transformational coaching, we begin uncovering the beliefs and emotional patterns underneath the behavior.
And then we work to release them.
This Isn't About Fixing You. It's About Freeing You.
So many women have spent years becoming who everyone else needed them to be.
The mother.
The wife.
The businesswoman.
The caretaker.
The strong one.
The woman who keeps everything together.
Somewhere along the way, they stopped asking:
Who am I?
What do I want?
What would my life look like if I stopped making decisions from fear, guilt, rejection, or the need to prove myself?
My coaching creates a space for you to discover those answers.
Together, we identify the beliefs that have been running in the background—I’m not good enough. I’m not worthy. I don’t matter. I have to earn love. I have to do everything myself. I’m afraid to fail. I’m afraid to succeed.
Then we begin creating something new.
Not just a new goal.
A new identity.
My Credentials
Training That Supports
Transformation
Board Certified by the Association for Integrative Psychology:
Integrative Neuro-Linguistic Programming Coach
Master Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming
Master Practitioner of Hypnosis
Master Practitioner of Mental & Emotional Release®
Additional Certifications and Training:
Certified by Jon Paul: Breathwork Facilitator
Certified by Samantha Skelly: Somatic Healing Coach
Extensive Training in Spiritual and Healing Arts:
Huna under best-selling Author Dr. Matt James and Master Kumu Hula Etua Lopes
Who I Coach
I work with women who know there is more for them.
Women who may look successful from the outside but know something inside is keeping them from fully stepping into the life they desire.
You may be navigating a major transition, rebuilding after a difficult season, struggling with confidence or self-worth, repeating unhealthy relationship patterns, feeling stuck in your business, or simply realizing that the woman you have been can no longer take you where you are meant to go.
You don’t have to know exactly what is wrong.
You simply have to know:
I’m ready for something different.
My Approach
Transformation isn’t about becoming someone else.
It’s about releasing what no longer belongs to you so you can become more fully who God created you to be.
My coaching combines powerful subconscious transformation tools with practical action and accountability.
- We work through the past without living there.
- We identify what needs to be released.
- We get clear on what you actually want.
- We create goals around the life you're ready to build.
- We develop your future-self identity—your AVATAR—and begin aligning your thoughts, beliefs, behaviors, boundaries, and decisions with her.
And then we put it into action.
Because transformation isn’t what happens during a coaching session.
Transformation is what happens when you begin living differently because of it.
From Survival To Choice
I know this work because I have lived it.
There was a time in my own life when everything I believed gave me security disappeared. I experienced seasons of loss, fear, uncertainty, and deep questioning that ultimately brought me to a place of surrender.
That journey changed me.
It led me deeper into my faith, into understanding the unconscious mind, and ultimately into the transformational work I now have the privilege of bringing to other women.
I learned that you can rebuild your life.
You can rewrite the beliefs you’ve carried for years.
You can stop allowing your past to determine your future.
You can learn to trust yourself again.
You can receive love without earning it.
You can succeed without apologizing for it.
You can create boundaries without guilt.
You can know your worth without needing someone else to validate it.
And you can become the woman you once wondered if you were capable of becoming.
Your Next Chapter Doesn't Have to Look Like Your Last One.
There is a version of you who no longer makes decisions based on who she had to become to survive.
She knows who she is.
She knows what she deserves.
She trusts herself.
She honors her boundaries.
She allows herself to receive.
She takes the opportunities.
She uses her voice.
She stops shrinking.
She walks boldly toward the life God has placed on her heart.
My job isn’t to create that woman.
My job is to help you realize she has been inside you all along.
Are You Ready to Meet Her?
If you’re ready to stop managing the same patterns and start creating lasting transformation, I would be honored to walk alongside you.
Your past may explain who you’ve been. It does not get to decide who you become next.